Have you ever been to summer camp as a family? I am talking about the kind where you stay in rustic cabins, do organized activities, and share communal meals. I took my multicultural family, we had a great time and learned a few things for next time. And there will so be a next time. If you haven’t thought about it, consider it. It was a beautiful experience. Read on for my musings about it, or just skip to the 10 Tips to Make Your Summer Camp Amazing.
We took a three day trek into the mountains for Peace Camp by the Modesto Peace Life Center. It was the first time I had participated in an organized camp since sixth grade. I grew up camping, but had gotten away from it with the demands of being a grown up and a husband who thinks roughing it is a nice hotel. Suffice it to say, it had been way too long since I had taken the time to recharge in the mountains. So when the opportunity came up, I jumped at the chance. I wasn’t expecting much, to be honest. I convinced my mom and son to come with me, so we packed our bags and off we went.
It was my son’s first time “camping” since he was three and he doesn’t remember it. Time passes so quickly with one thing and another and I just realized I am raising a city boy. Oh the horror! I was backpacking before I learned to walk.
Luckily he was enthusiastic, and had a great time. He gets a little freaked out about bugs in the house, so I hoped it would not be a problem. My little scientist decided that we were “in nature” which is their home and we were just visiting. He wasn’t bothered by any of the critters, to the point where he didn’t want me to sweep the spiders out of our cabin, although he was just fine when Grandma got rid of the dead mouse that we found there when we arrived.
It was really nice to not have to plan and organize everything, especially the food. I have also gotten citified enough that I really appreciated being able to shower. The people were incredibly warm and welcoming, and the activities were well organized. Many people really put effort into making us newbies feel comfortable and at home.
My friend, who was also there for the first time, said “It feels like we have found our tribe,” and she was right. I have lived in California’s Central Valley for nearly thirty years, (Gah, time flies!) and I am comfortably at home here, but have had a difficult time finding a community of people who truly share my views on the world. I have missed that, more than anything from my time living in a larger city. At this camp I encountered people of every age and many cultures and walks of life, all focused on true inclusion on an individual and a global level. It was a space where multiculturalism was embraced and lived.
Every person I met there had an interesting story and really thought about the world and the way they occupy it. I haven’t had that many stimulating conversations in ages, let alone concentrated over three days. The experience buoyed me in mind and spirit. I am excited to go back, in fact, I’ve already got next year blocked off on my calendar.
So, what did I learn from Peace camp?
I learned that I over-pack. OK, I knew that already, but I really did bring too much stuff. Next year I will not be so bogged down with stuff, now that I know more of what to expect. Being able to stay in a cabin and having all the food prepared takes such a huge burden off of camping. We brought enough snacks that we could have eaten fairly well all weekend, and never touched them. However, I was very happy that I brought sheets for the camp cots (protection from mouse droppings). I should have brought more warm clothes, it was just so hot down in the valley I couldn’t really believe it would be cold at night. I knew better, it’s not like I have never been to the mountains before! Luckily my mom also over-packs and brought an extra jacket.
My son spent hours upon hours playing with rocks and a creek and a few other kids. I renewed my resolve to get him outside more and to take more days in nature. Our family situation doesn’t make it easy, but we’ll work on making sure he has more unstructured time outdoors. I may have to schedule it. Anyone else see the irony in scheduling unstructured time?
I learned how much I had been longing for my tribe without even realizing it. This blog has been my way of connecting with others who live a multicultural life, but now I’ve found a space where I can go to meet such folks in real life. And that is a wonderful feeling.
10 Tips for an awesome Summer Camp
- Do bring warm clothing for the evening. It gets cold in the mountains!
- Sheets to cover camp cots make sleeping much nicer, even if you are using a sleeping bag.
- Make sure to have a separate bag for shower stuff since it will be a trek from wherever you are sleeping. Keep the toiletries to a minimum: shampoo/conditioner, soap, toothpaste/brush, sunscreen, bug spray.
- Bring several pairs of shoes that are easily cleaned. Dirt and mud happen. Closed toe will protect you from splinters and stubbed toes. Flip flops really don’t work!
- Leave your electronics behind. If you have them with you, you will be tempted to use them.
- Bring a camera that’s easy to carry with you if you want pictures of the experience. Moments that just happen make the best memories.
- Don’t hide behind your camera so much that you don’t really join in on the fun.
- Bring refillable water bottles that can hook on your belt and drink often.
- Participate. Its the best way to get the most value out of summer camp. Look at the schedule on the first day and decide which activities you are going to join. Do something you have never done before, it’s a safe space to try new things since many others are new as well.
- On the other hand, don’t pack your schedule so much that there is no time to just play. Let the kids play and let yourself play too.
- Help. You will likely sign up for chores at the beginning. Show up on time and work enthusiastically. If you see something that needs doing, just do it. Make sure your kids help too. Depending on age they can help you with your chores or do their own. My son held the dustpan while I swept and helped clear the tables after meals. By next year he might be old enough to have his own chores.
Have you gone to summer camp as a family? Please share your story in the comments. If you haven’t I highly recommend it and will do my best to answer any questions you have.
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